Tuesday, April 15, 2014

Stone


Assalamualaikum.


Horeayy. Rasa macam dah habis exam summer pulak, padahal semalam baru habis miniCEx a.k.a mini clinical exam je pun. Semalam, kat South Infirmary hospital, clinical tutor aku suruh buat respiratory examination dekat seorang granny ni. Alhamdulillah, feedback semua baik, hehe. Plus, clinical tutor aku ni a.k.a Dr B memang sangat mantap ar dalam bagi feedback kat performance students. I like.


By the way, untuk entri hari ni, takde laa nak cerita panjang lebar pun. And rasanya sangat sesuai lah untuk budak budak medik, yang bila kena marah, kena sound sikit, kena sarcasm dengan consultant and cepat nak tersedu sedan atau makan dalam dan sebagainya.



Hari ni saje buat check list untuk exam summer ni. Nampak tak angan angan menggunung tinggi tu~ Hehs


Hari tu aku ada tengok satu video by Anna Akana ni, tajuk dia, agak tak berapa sopan jugak kalau nak tulis, so aku cakap pasal mainpoint dia je laa ok.


Ceritanya, ada seorang guru vokal ni, dia ceritalah, ada beza pelajar lelaki dan pelajar perempuan. Kalau pelajar perempuan, bila orang marah dia, dia akan cepat rasa down, rasa give up, rasa "i dont want to do this anymore!!".... Tetapi kalau pelajar lelaki, bila orang marah dia, dia akan jadi lebih energetic, dia akan rasa "okey i want to this once again,"....


Nampak tak bezanya... Perempuan kadangnya (haha kadang ke, rasa macam selalu je) penuh dengan emosi. Actually emosi tu tak salah pun, yang salahnya kalau emosi tu drive kita ke arah kemunduran diri sendiri. Jadi kita sendiri yang rugi. Where as the guys, most of them are not easily been affected kalau kena marah sekalipun...


Kena belajar jadi chill and cool. Control emotion. Senang cerita, sebab lumrah perempuan ni dengan emosi, bila cepat rasa down, fikir balik tujuan kita. And yeah mungkin boleh contohi sikit sikap some guys yang bila kena tegur, lagi bersemangat deme nak belajar.


Gelojak dalam hati tiada siapa nampak, tapi maintainkan wajah *stone. Indirectly akan influence jiwa jadi rileks jugak. Heh. Ni cakap berdasarkan pengalaman haha. 


Bila dengar kisah HO kena marah ke, tak kisah laa sama ada di Malaysia atau di mana mana sahaja, eloklah sebenarnya develop skills "Stone" ni dari zaman belajar ni.


Contohnya situasi, 

"Kenapa awak ni lembab sangat, nak ambik darah pun sampai sejam, awak ni grad mana??"


Okey fine laa, kalau MO (medical officer) tu dia cakap dengan nada tinggi macam harimau ke apa, abaikan nada dia, tapi ambik mesej dia.

Mesej yang nak disampaikan : perbaiki skill phlebotomy


Itu je. So rules untuk tak mudah rasa stress bila orang cakap kasar atau marah atau tegur kita, ialah, EKSTRAK MESEJ, ABAIKAN INTONASI~


Malu malu bunga ni nak mekar. Malu itu perisai orang beriman. Tapi jangan malu tak bertempat pulop~



So itu sajelah nak dikaborkan. Selamat study semua ye, musim peperiksaan kan skang, jangan malas-malas sangat, pheww~


Wassalam


Glossari:

*Stone-faced is someone with a serious, or expressionless face. (sumber yahoo answer)

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Don't you think that's wrong, though? I mean, why shout in the first place? Isn't it normal for beginners to make mistakes? I watched the video "Budak baru" and I found so many things wrong.

I don't get it - does no one try to right this at all? From what I see, it's a vicious cycle. An environment like that does not make wholesome individuals - and it's worrying, because those individuals are supposed to save people's lives, to patch what's broken. If they're broken themselves.. well.

I understood your point though, optimism doesn't hurt. But how long can you take it? For the sake of professionalism? How long can you be "stone-faced" when you're just human? How long before you crack and break?

In my opinion, the lashing-out/throwing things around (basically anger management issue) doesn't scream 'experience' or 'professionalism' or 'seniority'. It's just a way of dumping your stress on someone else, and that's childish and unacceptable.

I'm sorry, this becomes lengthy before I knew it haha. And sorry for barging in - am just interested to know a medic's student point of view is all. :)

Norain Ishak said...

Thanks for your opinion anonyomous. I did appreciate that. Yeah, it is not easy to keep our emotion in balance, but at least, keep trying, right?

Allah says in Al Quran,

And seek help through patience and prayer, and indeed, it is difficult except for the humbly submissive [to Allah ] (2:45)

May Allah make us among His believers who have patience and perseverance in our everyday life.. InsyaAllah.


=)